Wednesday, September 28, 2011

Autumnal Thoughts

I am sitting at my dining room table facing the water, listening to Hawaiian slack key guitar music, sipping tea and waiting for the sun to get just a little closer to the horizon so that I can go out and bid farewell to the day. It always amazes me how perfectly Hawaiian music fits here. I guess natural beauty celebrated in sound is appropriate no matter where you are.

The sky is filled with small, puffy, cotton ball clouds. There are clouds here like no other place I have ever been. At times there will be wispy, sweeping ‘angel wing’ clouds stretching across the sky that take your breath away they are so stunning. They often appear directly in front of our house.  It’s hard not to feel wealthy here! Life just keeps giving and giving. All l I have to do is accept and receive.

Tonight is the new moon.  It’s perfect weather to cozy up on the porch, watch the Milky Way and look for shooting stars. Just a few days ago it officially became autumn. One has to be delicately attuned to feel a difference as yet. It’s not unlike San Diego in that the light changes and there seems to just a little nip in the air in the mornings and evenings. After all, the thermometer has gotten down to 76! (And this causes us to put on sweaters; oh how quickly we have adapted to the new climate!)
Rowdy tidepooling

With the new moon the tidal swings are extreme. Today’s low tide found Rowdy and me out at the tide pools, enjoying the warm water and wandering here and there. Rowdy is always ecstatic to be in the pools as his favorite pastime is fishing, and our 3 trips there today were simply not enough for his taste. I took my camera and played with underwater photography. There is a certain pool roughly 45 yards out and normally under a good deal of water, which is my favorite. I call it the Castle Pool. At some point in time someone poured a concrete wall way out there – for the life of me I can’t imagine why- but it forms a protected 4 foot deep pool that always has fish and plant life in it. And if Rowdy isn’t bounding across it, it is crystal clear and peaceful.

Lately there have been numerous mobula rays in the bay that repeatedly jump out of the water and fly through the air. Sometimes they land gracefully, sometimes they belly flop. When I first noticed them I Googled ’rays of Baja’ to try and learn something about the phenomenon. Not much info, but some great You Tube clips. Robert and I have been utterly entertained and spent quite a bit of time swimming with them yesterday, just enjoying the show.

Hurricane Hillary is south of Cabo San Lucas right now and it is possible that we might get a little rain this weekend, though it is rare that any storm makes it this far north. I think Pt. Abreojos has an average rainfall of 3” per year, though we’ve been in a drought for some time now…..

Chris, Tracey, Robert, Tattay and Rowdy
We had our first guests this past weekend. Tracey, Chris, and their dog Tattay, stopped by for a couple of nights on their way down to Punta Conejo. What a wonderful time we had entertaining and relaxing. As we have been building I keep seeing us entertaining, but until now it has only been an occasional dinner party. (Admittedly the 13 hour drive here might be a drawback :) They seemed to enjoy walking out the driveway to take a dip in the warm water, occasionally casting a fishing line and long beach walks.

We will be spending 2 weeks in Hawaii in mid-Oct. I am really excited about that too!!  Weston Jolly's Hawaii Retreat– our annual gift to ourselves!  It will be interesting to see how the tropics feel after the desert. And as always, a change of pace and scenery is good for the creative spirit. In that vein of thought I plan to visit Oaxaca in Feb. (Look for a blog on that trip soon, as we still need 4 people to complete the list!)

Summer has been absolutely exquisite and I am looking forward to seeing what fall will bring. I hear that it is the most beautiful season here. I can’t imagine it being any more splendid!

Monday, September 19, 2011

I Love

I love how the wind caresses my skin with warmth.

I love how the sea is ever changing in its dress, its color, its texture and song.

I love the way the birds dance with the wind, how the pelicans glide so gracefully only to land so clumsily.

I love how the clouds gather across the horizon forming vast billowing thunderheads one day and shear soaring angel wings the next.

I love the blues and turquoises bunched up against tans and browns, earth colors against sea and sky.

I love the ripples left by the receding waves, patterns of infinite beauty and texture, fascinating the artist within me to see dark against light, color and texture.

I love the songs, the calls of the birds awakening me each morning, inviting the sun to rise above the mountains across the bay and climb across the sky yet again.

I am surrounded by inspiration, by wealth of Life, by the Earth, Sky and Water. It is my honor to play here, to explore this.

With each inhale I receive. With each exhale I give back the love extended 10 fold.

I love this dance~

Painting: Baja Landscapes #4
Artist and Copyright Jill Mollenhauer 2011
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Sunday, September 18, 2011

Fiesta Weekend

The day was ending as magically as it had begun. I was sitting sipping sweet tea on the patio under an expanse of blazing stars. The Milky Way began at the horizon directly in front of me and shot across the inky sky over my head and beyond the rooftop. How could I possibly not feel utterly rich when surrounded by such beauty?

It had begun with a pre-dawn walk along the beach, Robert, Rowdy and I. The warm water invited us to walk knee deep. Baby dolphins were playing in the shore break directly in front of us and their child-like energy was infections. It was such a delight that we failed to even notice the sun’s climb above the horizon until it was shining fully upon land and sea. What a precious way to begin this fiesta weekend!

Mexican Independence Day, Sept 16th, is celebrated here in Abreojos with days of partying, parades, dancing, games and a fishing tournament that draws contestants from near and far. It is their ‘4th of July’. Our neighbors Tom and Marianne have a house full of Norte Americanos who have come down for the event.

Never having experienced this holiday before, we didn’t know what to expect. We had planned to go to the festivities in town, but getting information regarding the times for these events always seemed to draw multiple conflicting answers, so we decided to spend the majority of the day working on the house and then show up in the afternoon. After all there were 3 days of fiesta planned. Surely we would not miss them all!

There seems to be a custom here in Baja (maybe all of Mexico, I don’t know) that the arrival of the rancheros from the outlying ranches signals the beginning of the ‘real’ party. Since many of the ranches are deep in the mountains or desert, in times past, it could take days for them to ride their horses into the closest town to celebrate. (This accounts for why Mexican parties are known to last several days and the hosts feed and shelter their guests for the interim.) While trucks and vehicles have become the preferred method of transport nowadays, they still bring their horses and begin the festivities with a parade, riding down the main street.  We really wanted to see this, but not knowing when it was scheduled (oh what a word for Mexico!) we voted for getting some projects done.

Imagine my surprise when I heard Robert calling me to come outside and see something. There were about 30-40 riders moving along the road out front! Mixed in with the horses were quite a few cars and further down, the road was lined with more cars and people who knew the horses were coming out here. I stepped outside my front door, walked across the driveway and enjoyed the parade. It had come to me!

Early in the afternoon we went into town to see what was going on. We strolled the malecon and saw the stage that had been erected for the band, the children’s play area, the booths that lined the street selling various foods, and the houses that had miraculously become ‘restaurants’ with tables, chairs and sign boards listing their menus.

Having experienced the street fairs of San Diego my whole life, with their sheer size and volume of attendees, one must appreciate what it is like here in a town of 1600 people and cultural differences. This is a big event here.  Meapa (Muheres en Accion, Punta Abreojos- Women in Action, Punta Abreojos) spends days cleaning the town, cooking for the rancheros, organizing events and planning the games.  Mexican flags fly from car antennas and garlands of green, white and red are strung everywhere. There is a surf contest (2 divisions according to age) with judges who are brought in from Wild Coast (a US based environmental group), dance performances by the children, an awards ceremony and of course the crowning of the Queen. And all this carries a certain innocence and delightful simplicity that I’ve never experienced in the States. The festival street is only 2 blocks long. Yet the enthusiasm is huge.

By sunset, many of our friends – Americans and locals alike- lined the street, libations in hand. I noticed a thick white rope some 50 feet long stretched across the sand. Tug of war? Yep.  Before too long groups would gather by the rope, teams would form and Eduardo would officiate with just enough solemnity and lightheartedness to make it fun and a serious challenge.  There were girls against boys, Gringos against Mexicans, rancheros against fishermen, and general free for all’s. Robert and our friends competed in a Gringo/Mexican round and everyone was completely spent afterwards. The American ‘pod’ sat on the beach close by and cheered and shouted encouragements.  And here is where some cultural differences show up.

It seems that cheering is not done for things like this, nor is clapping after a band finishes a song. While we boisterously shouted and hooted the rest of the crowd was probably looking at us as though we were noisy children. That is not to say that the Mexicans do not participate. Heavens no! They will dance until sunrise and play with more heart than you can imagine, but they do not clap or shout. (Except at the baseball games, then it the exact opposite.) It seems so unusual to me, yet their energy lasts until dawn and I simply do not. So who knows? Maybe they are just too dignified to let go until more beer has been consumed; I have never lasted long enough at the gatherings to find out.

The highlight of the evening for us was the pole climb. I’d never witnessed this before and I marveled at the determined attitude of the competitors, along with their physical strength and fortitude. A 30 to 40 foot pole had been erected in the sand on the beach, just in front of the tug of war zone and it had been slathered very liberally with axle grease. At the top were 4 pieces of paper that fluttered in the wind on short strings. The goal was to get to the top and tear all the papers off the pole. Someone told me that you wanted to be the 60th person to try because until most of that grease was removed, there was no chance.  And to top it off I hear axle grease is next to impossible to clean up.

Right around sunset a group of young men approached the pole and began to run their hands up and down it, as high up as they could reach, removing as much of the  blue lubricant as they could and then flinging it on to the sand. (We all backed up rapidly!) Obviously they had been planning their attack for some time as they had 6 in their group and they seemed to know how they wanted to do it. The two biggest burliest guys formed the bottom tier by hugged each other tightly with the pole between them. Then, one by one, the others climbed up onto their shoulders and began to make a chain of bodies stretching to the top - they hoped. One minute they would look so strong then slowly the grease, that had by now spread to every inch of their bodies, faces and clothes alike, would take over and in slow motion they’d slide down the pole, landing in a heap, like an overheated candle that had melted.  The grease mixed with the sand and sweat gave for better traction and every so often they would apply more sand on top of the grease.  (I am sure that they had to throw away their clothing afterwards!)

It took 11 tries to reach the top and between each attempt they would gather to reassess the situation. Extra bodies were brought in when on try #8 they had all participants up and steady, but were just 3 feet shy of being able to reach the papers. When they did reach the top, smiles, cheers, back slapping and beers were liberally passed around.

By this time the sun had long set. The band was playing and people were beginning to dance. We joined them for a while and then headed home, knowing that the party would last until dawn at least. And most of these folks were signed up for the fishing tournament at 6 a.m. the following day! I don’t know how they do it, but do it, they did.

We wandered down the next day around 4 to see results of the tournament’s catch, and the whole festival area had been moved off the street and onto the beach. MEAPA was serving free fish meals, the Tecate booth was doing brisk business and 5 massive black sea bass hung waiting to be weighed. The band was playing, families were seated under shade tents and the tournament’s sponsor, Shimano, was tallying the results for all the categories. Our neighbor Marianne had a yellow tail in the running in the women’s division. The sun was beating down on the playa and by this time we both had had enough partying, so we returned home.

Today (the following day) all is quiet. I think most people are sleeping still. Many folks will be leaving tomorrow, headed back to their home bases and life around here will return to its relaxing speed.  It has been a wonderful holiday weekend and I am glad that I got to experience it.

The riches keep flowing!

Wednesday, September 14, 2011

A Little Trip to Heaven

Living in a surf community, for those of you who, like me, do not surf, can become rather monotonous.  At times I find it rather disheartening. To share a common passion is such a beautiful thing and I honor the beauty and fluidity of the sport! Really, I do! I just wish that sometimes the conversation could include some other topics…..

Punta Abreojos is such a naturally stunning place; it attracts avid surfers and kite borders alike, but few of them actually live here for more than a few weeks (even days) at a time. Naturally their time here revolves around their passion. But certainly there is more to life than the waves! It was at one such point of frustration that I told Robert I was questioning my ability to live here full time. “Please, I need something more!”

In a stroke of genius he suggested we take a little ‘vacation’.  We plan on going to the Sea of Cortez this winter and it is blistering hot there right now, so that was out of the question. However Bahia Asuncion, a town just a 2 ½ hour drive up the coast, has a new B&B that looked to be just the ticket. Thank goodness for the internet; we found all we needed to make what looked like a wonderful overnight adventure.

We asked our neighbors up the hill, Mona and Jerry, to go with us and off we started one Monday morning, bags packed and picnic lunches in hand. We stopped at Punta Chorros, a surf spot just a few kilometers south of the town to walk and explore before heading on and checking in.

Jean and Ed Epifani, the owners of Bahia Asuncion B&B couldn’t have been more pleasant and delightful. We hit it off right away. The rooms were clean and beautifully decorated. Since they were not quite finished with the construction, they gave us a wonderful deal on the price. They live half the year in Punta Chivato, on the gulf side, and half the year at the in Bahia Asuncion. Fluent in Spanish, Jean leads trips to Oaxaca at least once a year and she is a wealth of knowledge concerning all things Mexican.

After suggesting several places for dinner, the guys’ desire for a burger won out and we went to Loncheria Mari.  What a hoot! Tomas, the owner and chef was entertaining, accommodating and he makes a mean seafood cocktail. We had way more food than we could eat, and it was all so good! As we sat at the table, beers in hand, my eyes wandered around the small room and rested on the ceiling fan just above. All 3 light bulbs were a different color – 2 of them even painted in swirls! And a goofy Christmas reindeer ornament hung as a pull. I just have to love the Mexican way, always a surprise!

Tomas asked us if we wanted musica and when we said, yes, but not too loud please, he put on a mix of Reggae and Carlos Santana; it set a perfect tone for the evening. Mona wanted a mineral water, so Tomas ran down the street to buy one. Robert and Jerry wanted tequila, so Robert drove back to the B&B and got a bottle he had brought. Through it all Tomas smiled, laughed and conversed with us with a pure open heart. We so enjoyed our meal there!

We turned in shortly after returning to our rooms and thankfully the beds were wonderful. (Jean’s innkeeper’s motto is ‘don't dread the beds!’)The following morning she delivered fresh coffee and then breakfast to the patio table between our 2 rooms, so we could just stumble out of bed, sit outside and enjoy the morning air. Ahhh, just what the doctor ordered! My spirits were definitely picking up.

It turns out that Jean is a beautiful weaver and she shared with me some of her pieces. In our conversation she opened up a whole new side of Baja for me – the art community. J She knows so many local artists and has connections to shows in Baja. I was even invited to participate. I am saved! I am sure that we delayed breakfast by quite a bit; we were so engrossed in art talk.

About 3 weeks earlier we happened to meet a woman in Vizcaino while standing line at the bank. She told us she lived in Bahia Asuncion, but what we didn’t know is that she’s a good friend of Jean and Ed’s, so Beth joined us for breakfast on the patio. (Jean had told her we were coming.)

Beth is also an artist. She makes beautiful jewelry from fossilized shells and shark’s teeth. We visited her house/studio after leaving Jean and Ed’s and spent a wonderful day getting to know her and seeing her creations. She lives out on the point and listening to the waves crashing and the seal rookery there was a totally different experience than our more tranquil bay front property.

Driving home I felt reborn. 2 whole days with conversation that did not revolve solely around surf – heaven! I felt alive again. There is hope for me here yet! Robert suggested that anytime I feel the need I should just jet up the road and get a dose of artistic conversation.

I guess it’s all about your passion~



For more information on Bahia Asuncion check out the town’s web site. Also listed is Jean and Ed’s B&B, along with Loncheria Mari.  http://www.bahiaasuncion.org/index.html

For more information on Jean’s 10 day trips to Oaxaca (which we will be taking in Feb 2012!) email her at: jeanbcs@hotmail.com

Sunday, September 11, 2011

Sunset Adventure

It looked like it was going to be another beautiful sunset and having just experienced driving on the sand a few days earlier, Robert suggested we head to the beach north of town to enjoy the show. We had heard that a pilot whale had washed ashore several miles up so we thought we’d go look for that also.

An adventure! Our trusty 4 wheel drive Toyota pickup has always been miraculous when it comes to reliability and it is the perfect Baja vehicle for such outings. So we headed across town just a bit before la puesta del sol.

I’m still new to the off road scene, and truthfully I still get a little squeamish. For some reason I would rather be outside the vehicle watching some (to my mind) questionable maneuver than inside. Crazy, I know, but I do. So I got out of the truck at the beach ‘to check the softness of the sand’. It felt pretty dicey to me, but we already know I can be a chicken.

So Robert took off across the beach and then stopped to let me back in the truck. That’s when the vehicle started to sink. Try as he might it just kept digging deeper and deeper. Luckily we had brought a big shovel and since we were in 4 wheel drive we knew that it was going to come out eventually. Something told me I should check the hubs to be sure it really was in 4 wheel, and I did, but I only checked one hub…..

The sun was rapidly approaching the horizon, and we were buried up to the rear axle, so as Robert furiously kept digging I began collecting rocks and shrubs to put under the tires, anything to get a surface to grip. There was no one else in sight, and we both silently thought it’d be really great if we had help. And we kept digging.

At this rate we knew we’d be there until at least an hour or 2 after dark. I wasn’t too worried about the tide catching us, just the darkness. And I questioned myself, ‘Why do I feel fear? After all, it’s nothing more than adventure, a change of plans, something new to experience!’ With breath I let go of the old conditioning that said unplanned things must be feared, and began to enjoy finding the perfect rocks for the extraction.

About 5 minutes later, over the sand dune leading to the beach, a big blue truck filled with Mexicans pulled up, 2 in the cab, 4 in the back. They must have come to watch the sunset too, we thought. The 4 in back jumped out and ran to the water; the 2 in front offered assistance. Luckily we had a tow strap and were able to hook onto their vehicle and lickity split we were out! How grateful we were!  

One guy knew a little bit of English and was having a wonderful time speaking it. We profusely offered all our Spanish thanks and they all piled back into the truck to head home. Seems they must have seen us from town and drove over just to help us out!

Then Robert noticed that one of the hubs – the one I had not checked – had slipped out of 4 wheel drive. No wonder we weren’t able to drive across the beach! He began to question how that had happened – in Spanish – and with great flourish, our multi lingual benefactor placed his hand on my shoulder, and solemnly said, in perfect English, “Shit happens.”

A huge grin broke out across his face and we all started laughing. Moments later we too drove off, thankful for the kindness of strangers and appreciative of the adventure we had just created.

Friday, September 2, 2011

Patterns

Patterns, repeated lines and shapes that create graceful harmony, large and small.

The lines of sand sculpted by the wind. Waves gliding across the surface of the bay making their way to shore, graceful curving arcs, culminating in froth of a white water, over and over again. The lines of birds in flight, the radiating petals of a flower, the way whiskers sprout from the mussel of a pet. All patterns.

We’re used to the ones that are obvious, stripes, paisley, polka dots, but what about the ones that appear subtly, quietly, lusciously? We live in a universe of patterns as a way to remind ourselves of numerous different things.

Music has patterns: verse, stanza, verse, etc. It’s comfortable and makes it easy to participate should we so choose. (Ever notice how uncomfortable you might feel hearing music of a genre that does not follow recognizable patterns, like progressive jazz or traditional Asian?) Literature follows patterns; I am sure cinema does too. We like patterns because in repetition there is a known and there is a potential beauty in their respective forms.

We learn by patterns, repetition, over and over. A baby learns to speak by hearing the sounds again and again, to walk, to love or to hate. That which we perpetuate becomes a pattern, and we become comfortable with it because we know it. The Universe allows us to choose what we want to create. There is no right or wrong in the eyes of the Infinite, just choices. That’s why if you want to create pain and suffering, it is allowed.

But maybe your choice is different. Maybe that isn’t what you really want. Then take a moment to stop and look at what patterns are being reflected in your life. Are they telling you something different than what you say you want?

The beauty of this place is that because I am more isolated if you will, more connected to the earth, I find I am delving deeper into me, seeing patterns of behavior that I have picked up throughout my life that do not serve me and certainly do not express Jill at all! Yet somewhere along the line I have accepted these behaviors as mine and have lived by these choices as if that was all I had. As I look, barriers and brick walls come tumbling down and I find all emotions come to the surface to be seen and felt. And in the end, it is all my choice. It’s up to me what I choose to proliferate, how to live and how to love. I choose unconditional love, unconditional expression, unconditional life.

Shocking? At first it sure feels so. At times I feel myself going into ‘confusion’ to distract myself from whatever layer is being called to the surface to be seen. I feel the discomfort that arises with each new realization thereof, but I do not choose distractions, so I keep going in. I choose clarity, vibrancy, expression and love, pure love.

I dive I into truth telling, not for the first time and it certainly won’t be the last, but to me patterns, however they show up, offer the incredible beauty of opening further! I am eternally grateful for the opportunity to appreciate each one and to release it, becoming better for the experience of having remembered Who I Am.

Wind patterns, the layers of the cliff bluffs, water as it recedes from the beach causing the sand to gather in lines of grey from soft dove to charcoal. Morning cloud formations. The veining on the wings of the dragonflies that are in such abundance here. All so very precious, so close to my heart and soul. Expressions of what lies Within.
 
 
all photographs taken and copyrighted by author, Jill Mollenhauer 2007